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What do common cat behaviours mean?

What do common cat behaviours mean?
by Lucinda Beeman

Read time: 5 min

Cats are seen as mysterious. But their behaviour speaks volumes. The key to understanding?Learning to read them. Here's a guide to understanding some common cat behaviours. (And what they mean.)

Slow blinking

When a cat gives you slow, deliberate blinks, it’s a sign of trust and affection. And often called a “cat kiss.” They feel safe around you, and are offering a little moment of connection. Try blinking back slowly; it’s a way to return the gesture.

Kneading

Cats knead with their paws, often on soft surfaces like blankets — or even your lap. This behaviour goes back to kittenhood, when they would knead their mother to stimulate milk flow. For adult cats, kneading is a sign of comfort and contentment. If your cat kneads on you, take it as a compliment.

Head butting (bunting)

When your cat bumps their head against you, they’re marking you with their scent. It’s their way of claiming you as their territory. It’s also a sign of affection and trust.

Rolling onto their back

A cat exposing their belly isn't always an invitation for a rub. (So keep on eye on those claws.) While it shows they’re comfortable around you, many cats dislike having their belly touched. It’s more a sign of trust. Showing they feel secure enough to be vulnerable.

Chattering at birds or prey

The quick, chattering sound cats make when spotting birds or other small animals is a mix of excitement and frustration. Some experts think it mimics the biting motion they'd use on prey. (If they could.)

Hiding

If your cat is suddenly hiding more than usual, they might be feeling unwell or stressed. Cats hide when they’re anxious or sick. So if this behaviour is new, monitor them closely. Or consult a vet. On the other hand, some cats naturally prefer cozy, hidden spaces— it’s where they feel secure.

Excessive grooming

Cats are known as fastidious groomers. But going too far can be a sign of stress, anxiety, or even a medical issue like allergies. Pay attention if your cat seems to be grooming more than usual. Especially in one spot. It might be worth a vet visit.

Slow approaches and quick retreats

Does your cat approach you, only to dart away when you try to pet them? This could be your cat testing boundaries. Or feeling torn between wanting attention and feeling cautious. (Relatable.) Let them come to you on their own terms.

Bringing you 'gifts'

Dead mice. Bugs. Or toys dropped at your feet. They're more than mere presents. This behaviour is rooted in your cat's instinct to hunt. And share the catch with their family. (How kind.) While it’s not always pleasant? It’s a sign your cat sees you as part of their social group.

Your cat’s behaviour isn’t random. And every action has a meaning, from affection to anxiety. By observing closely and understanding these signals, you can strengthen your bond and respond to your cat’s needs with confidence. Cats may be independent. But they’re always communicating with you. You only have to listen with your eyes.

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